Archive for November, 2007

What do you do for Christmas?

It’s five weeks to Christmas, or 36 more sleeps, as Meg at Dipping into the Blogpond puts it.

Like Meg it’s the present-giving that I find most stressful. Every year I find that I dislike the whole present-giving rigmarole more and more. Between my two families there are some 40 - 50 presents to be given (more or less depending on whether we buy gifts for ‘couples’ or individuals), and it just degenerates every year into an exercise in comparative list-making (comparative in the sense that I keep a tally of what I gave people in 2005 or 2006 so that I don’t give them the same thing. It’s so meaningful!).

Some might argue that I should just plan my Christmas shopping better, start earlier, even. My riposte to that is that I work fulltime, and 40 - 50 presents is a lot of shopping. If I was to plan it well in advance, it would mean that I would be spending quite a lot of my year shopping for these gifts, and making sure people are crossed off that infernal list. I dunno, the whole exercise utterly takes the joy out of giving for me.

I don’t know what the solution is, really. Last year we made gingerbread and cookies instead of giving people things, which was a nice idea, but at that time of year there’s just so much food around I don’t know if edible gifts really make much of an impression. Also, some of my family members now have to watch what they eat, so a sugary/ high fat/gluten-laden gift isn’t really the best thing to be giving them.

Let me stress here that I don’t begrudge children (say under the age of 15 or so) their pressies, but for everyone else? Although I do sometimes wonder what sort of message we’re giving children when all it becomes is a gimme gimme gimme session. (And I haven’t even mentioned the cost of all these presents!)

I’d rather just spend Christmas with people, and not worry about the presents. I really enjoy the get-togethers and catching up with people.

Am I just being churlish? What do you do for Christmas? Do you find it as painful as I do?

Alphabet meme

Tagged by Penny some weeks ago (thanks, Penny!) but didn’t have the time to consider my response, until now:

A is for asparagus. Have some in the fridge, and am pondering how to cook it.
B is for books. Like Penny, I can’t help this, being a librarian.
C is for cool. As in the weather. After a hot weekend last weekend, it has been cool and quite pleasant this weekend.
D is for dog. I can hear him playing with one of his toys in the other room.
E is environment. I’m generally pretty happy with my home environment (even if my study is always so messy), and my work environment, but I can’t help but wonder what will happen to The Environment, and what effect its deterioration will have on all of our lives in the future. Not to be gloomy or anything.
F is for fountain pen, my favourite writing implement. (You guessed I was going to say that, didn’t you?)
G is for gumnut. I have one on my desk - picked it up during a walk this afternoon.
H is for history. Specifically, family history. No particular reason for adding this, just been thinking about my two families lately and the word history is the first thing that popped into my mind when I thought ‘H’.
I is for Internet. What did we do without it??
J is for job applications. IMHO writing a job application is far worse than doing an exam.
K is for kale. I’d like to buy some, but as far as I know, and according to Kate, it’s only available in Freo. (Must get my act together one of these weekends…)
L is for language. It fascinates me, and I love listening to speakers of unfamiliar languages have conversations.
M is for music, especially anything by Mozart, which I seem to be enjoying very much lately.
N is for names. I had a strange dream the other night - dreamt I gave birth to a baby boy, who M and I named, and then, in the dream, I freaked out because I realised I’d forgotten to give it a Chinese name. I woke up feeling strangely anxious, but I can’t remember any of the names we gave this dream baby now. Pity…
O is for oasis, octopus, okapi, okra, ouzo. I cheated and picked up the dictionary - I was not expecting to have trouble with this letter!
P is for Paco who has now come into my room and is snuffling around.
Q is for quinoa, which I keep reading about. Must try some one of these days
R is for Radio National, my favourite station. I’ve been listening for years!
S is for sarong. Specifically, traditional Malaysian/Indonesian batik sarongs, which are my favourite items of clothing in the summer.
T is for trumpet. As in Telemann’s trumpet concerto number 1 in D major which is playing on iTunes at the moment.
U is for umbrella, which I will need to bring with me tomorrow as the forecast is for a morning shower!
V is for vegetarian, me the new vegetarian. I hesitate to say vegan even if I am mostly vegan for a great deal of the time, because I will make exceptions, especially for family occasions. This is the second time I’ve gone vegetarian, actually, and it seems to be easier - people are more supportive, even especially family (at a recent family do there were not one, not two, but four vegetarian dishes!).
W is for the first letter of my surname. It was quite a change to go from C (my maiden name, near the beginning of the alphabet) to W, let me tell you!
X is for… xylophone. I was going to ask what the difference was between a xylophone and a glockenspiel, but Wikipedia’s answered that question.
Y is for You, dear reader. Thanks for reading and all the support and comments through the years!
Z is for zephyr. There’s a nice one blowing in through my window at the moment.

Eat to Live Retrospective

Reading through my notebook, I realise that I started to “Eat to Live” three months ago now, on 13 August, to be exact.

In some ways it feels like a long long time ago, because I have gotten so used to the changes in my diet and lifestyle - I feel like I have been doing this forever. On the other hand I can’t quite believe it’s only been three months - because the change in my diet and lifestyle feels so profound.

I took a while to even blog about it, because when I started the diet I wasn’t 100% convinced that I would stick with it. (I hesitate to call it a ‘diet’ because it’s more than that; diets to me speak of deprivation and difficulties; this hasn’t been at all like that. But, ‘diet’ is easier to write and catchier than ‘lifestyle change’, so…) While I was initially reluctant to blog about it, I did write about it, of course. Far easier to admit defeat privately, than to have to suffer public ignominy via blog if I failed…

That first day, I wrote:

Fine clear morning. Cool (3.1°C at 0636hrs). Started ‘Eat to Live’ this morning. Found myself surprisingly anxious at the idea of not eating any animal products for the next 6 weeks. I am determined to try it, though, as I would like to lose some weight - also the idea of eating only plant-based, unrefined foods is appealing.

A week later, on 21 August:

Last week was a tiring and quite disorienting week, especially the first 3 or so days. Tuesday was particularly bad, with headache and generally fuzzyheadedness. I think it was due to giving up caffeine. Wednesday I still had a mild headache but by Thursday was back to normal [i.e. headache was gone]. Also found the salads a bit daunting last week, but I seem to be a bit less put off this week. It is hard in evenings not to be able to have my usual high fat, high salt comfort junk foods. I’d also underestimated the enjoyment M and I derive from sharing such meals together. Still, am determined to stick with this for the whole 6 weeks - I have lost 4 kgs [in one week]!

All the posts and forums I read about this diet warned that the first two weeks would be the hardest part of the whole process. I found this to be true. Once I got through that fortnight it no longer seemed so challenging and I didn’t have to continually tell myself the change was for my own good. By the end of the sixth week I wasn’t even thinking about the fact that the diet was officially over; today I am still mostly eating Eat to Live-type meals.

A typical weekday breakfast for me is usually four different types of fruit: orange, banana, pear, apple, pawpaw, rockmelon, honeydew melon, kiwi fruit, pineapple and so on. I have occasionally also had tropical fruit like starfruit and mangosteen (when they were available in the market from the Ord River). I can’t wait for summer and luscious stone fruit. There are already some in the market now, but I think I’ll wait at least another 3-4 weeks as these early ones tend not to be as sweet and flavoursome.

A typical weekday lunch is usually a large salad: a variety of vegies including English spinach, tomato, cucumber, carrot, chickpeas (or other legumes), mushrooms, capsicum, etc… Occasional small amounts of avocado and/or almonds or cashews. I pack my lunchbox to the brim and try to have a wide variety of vegetables. Only drawback is that the amount of vegies I have usually takes a fair amount of time to actually eat!

Dinner is more varied, but usually something hot. The best thing about this change is that we cook at lot more at home. We eat things like tofu, stirfried choy sum (my favourite vegetable) with rice, chickpeas and tomatoes, a great pasta primavera that M makes and various other vegetarian/vegan meals. Even though M didn’t do the diet with me, he’s now gone vegetarian as well, which has been great, as we can share meals easily. M’s been a wonderful support - in the difficult first stages he continually encouraged me to stick to it. We do eat out and even have takeaway occasionally. Our favourite takeaway place, Goreng2 in Mount Lawley happily does vegetarian versions of most of their dishes.

Weekends I am a bit lax - for example, having a fresh-from-the-oven brioche (ooh la la, tasty, but hardly vegan!) from La Galette in the markets when we do our weekly shopping. I figure the occasional treat isn’t going to hurt, now that my diet is so much improved. I’ve mostly stopped eating snacks like chips and biscuits (cookies) and generally have very little refined sugar. I have never been a chocolate addict (or had that much of a sweet tooth) so I don’t miss this at all. I don’t miss dairy products at all either, luckily. I put this down to coming from a culture for which dairy does not play a big part. (No, cow’s milk is not essential for a good diet. Ask the billion Chinese.)

It’s been very good. I hope to keep making improvements and increasing my awareness about good nutrition.